Mature with Pets

Nugget was adopted by the Arbo family two years ago. Known for high energy levels, Australian shepherds typically need daily stimulation, but Nugget has mastered the art of relaxing at home.

According to Jen Arbo, mother of nine-year-old Kale, who also has a cat and four chickens, “There’s a wonderful, easygoing bond between them, and Nugget has certainly become an essential part of Kale’s understanding of our family.”

Beyond the valuable lessons Kale has gained from pet ownership—like the responsibility of feeding Nugget, teaching commands, and coping with the loss of their previous dog—growing up with pets can foster numerous lasting benefits for children and strengthen family dynamics.

Integrating Pets into the Family

Dr. Christina Brown, a social-personality scientist and professor at Arcadia University, has studied the impact of pets on human health and well-being.

According to Brown, pets provide more than just companionship; they can offer social support akin to that provided by a spouse, sibling, or close friend. Pet owners often consider their animals to be integral members of the family, and the emotional closeness that develops enhances the benefits of pet ownership.

“Psychological studies indicate that having multiple sources of social support is beneficial. Pets contribute to this,” Brown explains. “If someone feels lonely or faces rejection, just thinking about their pets can elevate their mood.”

Moreover, Brown emphasizes that pets enrich a household without detracting from human relationships, serving as additional sources of support related to improved well-being.

How Pets Contribute to Healthy Childhood Development

Having pets can greatly influence early childhood development. Research suggests that children with pets in the home exhibit improved impulse control and fewer signs of stress, anxiety, and depression. Additionally, exposure to pets can lower the risk of developing allergies.

Brown notes that caring for a pet teaches children responsibility, and involving them in the pet’s care can be beneficial for both the child and the animal.

Moreover, the physical activity associated with pet care, especially with dogs, encourages children to go outdoors and be active, which is closely linked to mental health benefits. “Research consistently shows that physical activity is vital for mental well-being,” Brown adds.

Building Strong Social Bonds

Nugget is not the Arbo family’s first dog. A few years prior, Kale experienced the loss of their 16-year-old Shiba Inu, Mooki, who faced numerous health challenges before passing away. Jen and her husband involved Kale in the decision-making process regarding Mooki’s euthanasia, helping him understand the gravity of responsible pet ownership.

When they decided to adopt Nugget, Kale had to adjust to the needs of a younger, more active dog. “Recognizing that Nugget had different requirements was a significant adjustment,” Jen recalls. It’s now routine to see Kale chatting with Nugget about his favorite video games or filling him in on the cat’s antics, and Nugget eagerly participates. “Nugget doesn’t mind his chatter,” Jen says.

Engaging with pets verbally is a positive behavior, Brown suggests, as it conveys an acknowledgment of the animal’s unique personality and autonomy. “Although some might feel silly talking to their pets, that human-like interaction is precisely what strengthens the bond and mutual benefits,” she explains.

The Significance of Responsible Pet Ownership

Brown, an advocate for animal rights, emphasizes that while we often discuss the benefits pets provide to people, it’s equally important to address what we owe to our animals.

“Pets enhance our lives, but we must reciprocate. It’s not enough to just have them; we must provide for them,” Brown asserts.

This illustrates that pet ownership entails commitments, including proper care and training, which is a crucial lesson for both children and parents.